The Different Ways People Learn...
There is this saying in chinese that goes, "活到老,学到老". Everyone of us is always learning things, experiencing new stuff coz everyday is a different day from the past. Different things happen every day. Also, different people learn and handle situations with different approach...One type of approach that people will take is I called it the "learn from history" method. This is the sort of people who will ask others about their past experience and learn from them so that they will not make similar mistakes. Sometimes we also call this to learn the easy way out.
The other approach is what we usually say "learn the hard way". That is, to ignore all advices from other people and go and face the situation to experience it yourself. This approach can be quite dangerous because one may end it in deep trouble. The consequences to it may be too bad for one to face it and end up losing too many things.
Probably a balanced misture of the 2 approaches is the best way to handle things, as different situations different approaches can give optimal results and reduce the loss... Some things we have to go and experience it ourselves but some things it will be more better to learn the consequences from others and take measure to avoid them...

